BOUND BOYS

sexeducationforyoureverydaylives:

What? WHOA, you can’t just tackle bondage, oh ho I can and I shall to the best of my abilities. Now let’s take this big ole scary word and knock it down a few pegs:

• SO, what’s bondage? It’s the use of restraints for the sake of your sexual pleasure. It involves a lot of control on one part (usually a Dom(me)) and a lot of trust between partners/persons involved.
• Now first things first what you’re doing needs to be safe and consensual (because we all know consent is sexy). That means no altered state of mind here. All those substances are fun and games until someone’s tied down and someone else is too far gone to realize how BAD the situation has gotten.
• It’s suggested to have a safe word. No should be enough, but safe words also help bring people out of the scene. 
• Alright so trust is a HUGE factor here. Your partner needs to know that they’re ultimately safe in your hands. If you think your partner is a creep and will leave you strapped down to a bed, naked and alone, re-think your partner. If you have concerns, TALK TO YOUR PARTNER.
•  If you’re uncomfortable, do not pass go. NEVER do something you’re unsure about in that uneasy feeling kind of way to appease someone else. Your personal safety needs to come first
• Okay enough with the warnings. MATERIALS! Use soft materials for the casual user go impulsive with a tie, or a nice silk scarf. For those of you who would like to make constant use you ought to invest in some velcro cuffs, handcuffs, rope (x), or bondage tape.
• OH! also maybe have a pair of scissors handy nearby in case you get a little too cocky and tie up a knot you can’t seem to get loose. Try to keep calm and be careful

You know what goes nice with bondage? DIRTY TALK. Besides that, enjoy the tease, enjoy the power that you’re getting, enjoy the thrill of anticipation! Have fun, be safe, and may your orgasms be plentiful.

(via fuckyeahsexeducation)